To make a long story short, I don't want my ex at my house for visitation anymore. I don't mind if he brings our 13 month old to HIS house...BUT I don't want her left alone with his mother (whom he still lives with). She used to abuse my ex when he was a child (beatings with fly swatters that left welts and bruises, slapping, who knows what else).
Am I able to make that stipulation in a custody arrangement?
Also, he has changed her diaper once since she was born, and absolutely refuses to do so. He also doesn't know how to bathe her, and he feeds her when she cries (because he doesn't know how to soothe her). When he visits her at my house, he is mainly on my computer, and doesn't keep an eye on her (eg when I'm using the bathroom). How do I stipulate in the custody agreement that if he has visitation at his house, he has to take care of her needs, and make sure she is safe?
Any advice is appreciated. Thanks!
Asked by Anonymous at 9:16 AM on Aug. 1, 2009 in Relationships
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