My husband just put me on his account now that we're married, we've been married for about 4 months. Well, he's a bit of a mama's boy. He wasn't exactly thrilled to be joining me to his account, and his mother is also on it although she doesn't use any of the money, she just knows when and where he used it. So, I got my card and checks in the mail, and I'm under strict rules from him and his mom not to use the card for any shopping sprees no matter how good the sale. Of course I would never do that! I just held my tongue. Then, this morning I went online to access the online banking and I put it what I thought was his pin which wasn't and locked it. I called his mom to let her know and she wasn't upset but seemed very curious why I would want online access. She was even tussled that I asked her for the correct pin so I wouldn't lock it again. Even though her name is on the account, shouldn't I have full access to (cont)
Answer by Avarah at 12:20 PM on Aug. 1, 2009
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Answer by admckenzie at 1:31 PM on Aug. 1, 2009
I would've said that she needed to be removed when the option came about. He is a grown man. Mommy doesn't need to be watching his money. I honestly don't think I could be with a man who thinks so poorly of me.
She is 100% right with that statement. Nip this crap in the bud before it ruins your marriage.
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