We had our 4th baby, 8 weeks ago. We haven't had sex yet cause he refuses to wear a condom, he says that's what you do with strangers, not your wife. I can't take BC with hormones cause of a blood clot I had between my first 2 children. I've also tried Paraguard and Mirena and had side effects. I would get my tubes tied but I'm afraid to undergo surgery. I've asked him to get a vasectomy but he won't do it cause he thinks he won't get turned on anymore if he does. I think the only solution right now is condoms. Our first 3 children were planned, our fourth was from him pulling out which obviously isn't effective. So I won't let him do that again. He doesn't want anymore children, he works OT to support the ones we have now, I take classes online. Is it wrong to demand he wears condoms?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 1:38 PM on Aug. 1, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Dom123123 at 1:41 PM on Aug. 1, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 1:43 PM on Aug. 1, 2009
Not at all. If you don't want another child, he needs a condom. There is a new method of permanent sterilization called the Essure procedure. I think it is about as invasive as a pap smear, so that might be an option for you. Here is a link for more info about it.
Until you figure it out, I wouldn't have sex unless he wears one!
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