MY DD WHO IS FIXING TO TURN 13 WANTS TO GET TO KNOW HER SPERM DONOR AFTER HIM WALKING OUT OF HER AND HER BROTHERS LIFE 6 YEARS AGO. HE HAS BEEN HAVING LITTLE VISITS FOR THE PAST 3 MONTHS SUPERVISED BY ME AND OTHER PEOPLE. WELL TODAY SHE REALLY WANTED TO GO STAY THE NIGHT OVER THERE AND I TOLD HER NO, BUT SHE COULD GO OVER AND STAY TILL 10PM. I HOPE AND PRAY I DID THE RIGHT THING. OF COURSE I'M KEEPING MYSELF VERY BUSY AND I AM CALLING HER EVERY HOUR TO MAKE SURE SHE IS OK. DID I DO THE RIGHT THING? PLEASE HELP!!
Answer by mistym31 at 9:13 AM on Aug. 2, 2009
Answer by MELRN at 9:48 PM on Aug. 1, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 9:49 PM on Aug. 1, 2009
Why are you calling every hour? If you seriously do not trust him that much, why would you let her go over there for that long unsupervised? Has he given you reason to think that he'd harm her in any way or are you just over-protective?
Answer by legalmommy101 at 9:49 PM on Aug. 1, 2009
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Answer by lowencope at 9:51 PM on Aug. 1, 2009
I think you did the right thing. Unless he has a violent or mean streak that you are aware of. You should just make up a little code for your daughter to say to you on the phone if she wants you to come and get her and then ask her if it went well in the AM.
Answer by pixie_stix at 9:59 PM on Aug. 1, 2009
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