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be more confident. i always envy the women who walk around (even if they arent the most gorgeous people) and are very confident of themselves. i so wish that i could be like that. im not fat or anything. i mean im not at the ideal weight that I want to be or the way that I want to look. i know thats a big factor. But how can I be more confident?

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:31 PM on Aug. 1, 2009 in Just for Fun

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  • I know this sounds weird, but I had "fake" confidence! when I would meet new people I would look them straight in the face, head up, and be very happy, and cheerful, but really I was scared shit-less, the more I noticed people paying more attention to me, and be grinding me, the more I acted like that in more places. Eventually it became second nature, I'm no longer afraid to be outgoing, and walk with my head held high!


    Answer by Anonymous at 11:34 PM on Aug. 1, 2009

  • I know just how you feel girl! I am overweight and it does make you feel a little self-conscious but I am in this really great group now and I am working on that! You just have to tell yourself that you are confident and it will come naturally

    Answer by Frogbaby83 at 11:40 PM on Aug. 1, 2009

  • I agree with the first answer fake it til ya make it for me. If I "act" confident I find my confidence!!!

    Answer by ormom1977 at 11:54 PM on Aug. 1, 2009

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