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Have you had difficulties having a orgasim since you had a child?

since my daughter was born i can't have one with out some kind of help..i.e.a mini vibrator or oral pleasure...

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 12:15 PM on Aug. 2, 2009 in Health

Answers (7)
  • ive always kind of been like that anyway so i dont think much has changed .. but you should get some ky jelly intense for her. me and my SO just tried it recently, its great!
    PURPULbutterfly

    Answer by PURPULbutterfly at 12:17 PM on Aug. 2, 2009

  • Ive always been like that too. I have to be on top or I dont get one at all.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:22 PM on Aug. 2, 2009

  • i'm the same way if i'm not on top i don't get one!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:33 PM on Aug. 2, 2009

  • At first it was hard for me after my DD was born, I think things might just be desensitized down there. It eventually got back to normal for me though. It might just take time.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:43 PM on Aug. 2, 2009

  • nope
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:09 PM on Aug. 2, 2009

  • I had this problem for a long time after my son. Try pelvic floor exercises or even vaginal weights to get those muscles back into shape. This is what fixed me.

    pixie_stix

    Answer by pixie_stix at 4:58 PM on Aug. 2, 2009

  • yeah i do keagals alot but it doesn't help..it's more of a sensitivity thing i think...
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:12 PM on Aug. 2, 2009

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