My SO is an alcoholic and I usually deal with it by fighting with him or leaving him cause I feel unloved when he drinks because of the things that he says to me and because he shuts me and my son (not his son) out for days. He was getting better and only doing it once or twice but today will be the 5th day that he has drank. He did let me know yesterday and I tried to be understanding and go on with my day but he kept accusing me of not loving him and that I was going to cheat. I called him today and he was sober when I talked to him but he said he was unsure if he was going to drink and asked him not to but I have no control over what he chooses. Afterwards I sent him a pic of me and told him that I hope it helps him get through the day or to at least laugh and to stay strong. I dont know what else to do...it makes me upset but I dont want to fight anymore, it doesnt help when he is drunk because he gets mean.
Asked by Anonymous at 2:04 PM on Aug. 2, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by K_Sawyer at 2:09 PM on Aug. 2, 2009
You need to leave ASAP, you have a Son that doesn't need to be exposed to that especially if it's not his Dad.
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