I've known my boyfriend for about six months now. It's getting serious, we love each other. The only fault I see us having is that he only wants four (mine plus three more)kids. I've always said I want AT LEAST five kids. I feel like it could get to the point of marriage and then kids...I understand that it's the difference of one baby, but I'm not sure I could get over that. I don't want to put all my time and effort into this and then this one thing change my plans...Would you settle?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 10:56 PM on Aug. 2, 2009 in Just for Fun
Answer by Anonymous at 10:58 PM on Aug. 2, 2009
Answer by cinemagirl823 at 11:03 PM on Aug. 2, 2009
I agree with PP, you might find that later on your hopes and dreams change, the economy the way it is would make it very hard to afford 5 children, and it sounds like this is a pretty good man considering he will except your child as his own, ALSO, it could be the other way around, he could change HIS mind later and decide that he wants MORE children. I guess you have to ask yourself whats more important, love and a good role model for your son now, and your future children, or a future that's not necessarily out there for you?
Who knows, he might be "the one" and you let him go over a child that doesnt even exsist yet?
You can wait around waiting for MR.r\Right, and that man may NEVER come, and here you lost your chance...
Answer by JnCV at 11:05 PM on Aug. 2, 2009
Answer by Samanthao2006 at 11:06 PM on Aug. 2, 2009
Answer by codysmama2609 at 11:22 PM on Aug. 2, 2009
Answer by salexander at 10:09 AM on Aug. 3, 2009