The past five days I have not seen my SO due to alcohol. We have been off and on for the past two years and I always seem to break up with him because he starts drinking again and I cant handle it because he shuts me and my son out and says really rude things to me...then we try again.
Today I got a e-mail from him saying that he was swearing off the hard liquor...that he needs to detox, get his life in order and make something of himself and the reason he has been depressed is because he is not doing what he wants to do and drinking is keeping him from doing the things he needs to do.
I called him because we work for the same company and after all the work talk I asked him if we were done...he said we would talk about it later but asked me if I wanted a short answer, I said yes and he said no.
I am really confused and I dont know what to do anymore. Any advice would help.
Asked by Anonymous at 1:39 PM on Aug. 3, 2009 in Relationships
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