I feel when my skids come over I feel like they are here because they have to be here or just to make it right with dad. They never call unless they want something or if their mom is wanting something...aarrgg!!!
I just wish we could be a whole family when they are here I mean put their teenage gadgets away and give us some real old fashioned love. They are so involved in their own little world they don't even realize what it is important. I am sure they do this over with their mom's house, my dh doesn't want to say anything to them bc he wants them to keep coming back, I am like it they are going to be fake about it I don't care if they do come back...easy for me to say but if things were different I would change for them. How I wish my dh would only concentrate on this side of his new family...I know that is selfish but damn it pisses me off. I don't feel no realization here. How to make it better? THX!!!
Asked by Anonymous at 6:08 PM on Aug. 3, 2009 in Teens (13-17)
Answer by Mom2theboy1994 at 12:24 PM on Aug. 11, 2009
Teenagers, be they step or natural are only into themselves. You have to tell them outright that they are to put away the gadgets and spend some quality time with dad and your family, otherwise they won't know that they are being rude and inconsiderate. Don't insult them or yell at them, just tell them plain and simple that you are tired of how they are treating their dad by coming over there and ignoring him.
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