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what to do about the ex?

ok i really didnt know where to put this so i just put it in relationships. but anyways my S/O just started a new job and i mean new yesterday was his first day. he had such a hadr day there and was soo tried when he got home that he feel asleep at like 7:30-8:00 pm. well i decided to go to bed with him bc i had been up and babysitting and cleanin the house and stuff like that so i was kinda tired bc neither one of us really slept good the night before. well at 9:20 lastnight i hard the phone ringing and and it didnt stop umtil alomst eleven so i went and lookedat who called and it was his ex.(she called over 30 times really i counted everyone) well she always calls like that always no matter if it is just to ask a question and be nice or to yell at him. she cant jsut call once or twice and leave a voicemail and so i didnt pay any attention to it and so this morning i told him she callled like that and he was like well you she

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alw06tchs

Asked by alw06tchs at 12:35 PM on Aug. 4, 2009 in Relationships

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    staciandababy

    Answer by staciandababy at 12:38 PM on Aug. 4, 2009

  • is and so at 11 this morning her mom called again and left a voicemail saying that they had a accident and had to take the lil girl to the hospital and stuff and he could call them back if he cares about his lil girl i mean they try to make us feel bad but he couldnt help if he was tired you know and then he has to be at work at 400 in the morning and doesnt get home from work til 400 in the afternoon. so i mean it isnt like he knows about it and i dont answer the phone bc they try to start stuff with me when i answer you know so idk what to do my boyfriend doesnt know that his lil girl was in a accitdent bc he is at work so he wont know until he gets home at 400 and when he calls her to check on her he is going to get cussed out and yelled at by her she is going to say that he doesnt care about his lil girl and all this stuff and he is going to be really upset idk what to do?
    alw06tchs

    Answer by alw06tchs at 12:40 PM on Aug. 4, 2009

  • i finished it lol
    alw06tchs

    Answer by alw06tchs at 12:40 PM on Aug. 4, 2009

  • k that sucks. tell him you slept through the calls last night, you should call them back yourself and make sure its not life threatening
    staciandababy

    Answer by staciandababy at 12:42 PM on Aug. 4, 2009

  • well i thought about calling her but i know she is going to try to start stuff with me like always
    alw06tchs

    Answer by alw06tchs at 12:44 PM on Aug. 4, 2009

  • Um, if his daughter is in the hospital you need to call him at work and tell him. If someone knew that my daughter was in the hospital and didn't tell me, I would probably never speak to them again. How would you feel walking in the door and hearing, "Oh by the way, you daughter was admitted to the hospital last night." You are pretty dumb for not calling him already.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:44 PM on Aug. 4, 2009

  • i cant jsut have a decent conversation with her bc she turns it into an agruement even if i say i dont want to agrue.
    alw06tchs

    Answer by alw06tchs at 12:45 PM on Aug. 4, 2009

  • Why wouldn't you call him at work?
    MommyToAly429

    Answer by MommyToAly429 at 12:45 PM on Aug. 4, 2009

  • Id call and ask if you can go to the hospital to be there since u cant even get ahold of ur boyfriend because he's at work\

    but if u can get ahold of him keeping this info from him is not going to help ur relationship at all, If my baby were hurt Id wanna be there and Im sure he'd like to know.

    If not go to the hospital or where ever she is at urself and thats the best u can do
    Dom123123

    Answer by Dom123123 at 12:46 PM on Aug. 4, 2009

  • i feel bad but i have no way to call him at work he doesnt have a cell phone and idk the number to his work if we had to cars i would go up there. but his lil girl got to go home last night from the hospital

    i know this sucks bad
    alw06tchs

    Answer by alw06tchs at 12:47 PM on Aug. 4, 2009

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