No matter when I call him, day or evening, it's like we are forcing ourselves to chat.So I started just waiting for him to call me. He does and the conversation is a bit better but when he has to call me, it may take him over a month. We were calling each other on an average of once a week. Sometimes, we would be on the phone with each other for a couple of hours. Now, when he calls, we are never on the phone over 15 to 20 minutes. Is this normal or should I worry if there is a problem.
Answer by NannyTracy at 11:43 PM on Aug. 5, 2009
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Answer by KalebsMommee at 11:39 AM on Aug. 6, 2009
If it's an adult situation, the more you push--the more they push away. It's worse if he's in a relationship.
I'd say let him call you and give a reasonable amount of time you will allow (one month, six weeks, etc.) Leave a POSITIVE message.
Personal experience here- My roomie didn't call his mother once a week like she expected. She left messages, he ignored. She left meaner messages, he ignored. She blamed the people he lived with (cause it COULDN'T be her child ignoring her) and sent them nasty letters in the mail. He ignored. My point is----let him go, he'll call you.
Answer by ChiefChic at 2:06 PM on Aug. 7, 2009
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