I really think mine is. Don't get me wrong he works, takes the trash out and does laundry. I mean he can be home in time to put the kids down and won't (rather watch tv). He doesn't deal with them on Sat or Sun mornings unless I close the bedroom door and pretend to be sleep. If I don't have his dinner ready when he comes home, he won't fix it. He'll grab some chips & dip. Even when he's home, he "ignores" no matter how much noise they make, he's tuned into the movie he's watching. I do 90% of the caretaking with the kids. What happened to 50/50??
Asked by Anonymous at 11:38 AM on Aug. 6, 2009 in Just for Fun
You need to demand a personal vacation. At LEAST for one weekend. It will help him understand how hard all your duty's are. Some men just like to assume that we LOVE our job, & we LOVE all that time it takes to get everything done. Not that we hate it, but a LIL help goes a LONG way! If your a SAHM, it's even harder because then they use the excuse "but your home ALL day" argggg, that used to piss me off in my first marriage!
Luckily, my love is a neat freak. If something is not clean, or if it needs to get done, he cannot relax until it is done. So, if i feel like it, i will sit on my butt if i am overly tired & let him deal w/ it...LOL! We both sweat equally in our home though, that's the way it should be.
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