I am really struggling with this right now. I'm a single mother of 2 kids, each by different men. It may not seem like a big deal to some, but to its very upsetting. I know, I put myself in this situation & I love my kids with everything I have.. but it hit me recently when my s/o & I broke up for good--- that if I ever again in my life get involved with another man & we decide to have kids together.. that will mean that I will have kids by THREE different people !! It just sounds so... well.. bad i guess. I am not the kind of woman who's fast or anything like that, in fact, my kids are 8 yrs apart. My oldest was a result of a huge mistake i made when i was 17 & my baby i had with a man i thought was going to marry me. But now... here i am a single mother with 2 baby daddies..
What do you other mothers think of this? Is it as bad as it sounds? Truthfully..
Asked by Anonymous at 4:45 PM on Aug. 6, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by matthewscandi at 4:52 PM on Aug. 6, 2009
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Answer by glittersteph at 5:37 PM on Aug. 6, 2009
let me add, that a good man will have no problems with your kids :)
Answer by glittersteph at 5:38 PM on Aug. 6, 2009
Answer by hlmommy at 5:55 PM on Aug. 6, 2009
My mother had me when she was 17, married my biological father and found out less than a year he was cheating on her. They got a divorce. He is a complete waste of skin. They got a divorce and he made the national dead beat dad registry. When I was four she met another man, who treated me like I was his own, they dated for a year, had my sister and got married. They were married for 2 years and came to the mutual decision that they were better friends and have grown apart. They got a divorce and when they left the court house they went out for dinner.They are still friends. When my sister was six, she met another man. They dated for 6 months before we met him. After 2 years of dating, they got married. One year later my youngest sister was born. So no, in circumstances like that.. there is nothing wrong with it. Life happens. GOOD LUCK!
Answer by LadyLuck13 at 6:22 PM on Aug. 6, 2009
Answer by missanc at 9:00 PM on Aug. 6, 2009
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