I know that it certainly seems that way for many women. Add in the responsibility of dating and a child and the odds seem slimmer. They are not. First, you have to be comfortable with being single. It is okay. Before you start dating again or continue to hunt through all the frogs to find your pince, date yourself. Take yourself to cool places, do cool things, things you like. Be the interesting person you want to meet. Pamper yourself. Then start putting yourself out there. I like e-harmoney. I really think it is a great site to meet people who are serious about wanting to find the right relationship. Or in those activities that you are doing (Karate, coaching your son's baseball game, yoga, or hanging out at the park) you meet someone to date. Have fun. Enjoy being single. Enjoy having first dates and a lot of them. Hey, free dinners. Even enlist friends to help set you up. But do date you first.
at 7:09 PM on Aug. 8, 2009