I would set up an arrangement that works for both of you. I know people who set up to talk to their kids at the same time every day, or some sort of schedule. I can understand, he may want time alone with his child. It depends, you should consider what you do when you have your child. Do you let him call everyday and talk to her? Whatever you two decide, it should go both ways. Although this is the ideal situation, be careful, he can actually file charges and set it up so that you can be arrested if you call. (Not trying to scare you, but I've seen no contact orders between parents before.) Anywho, tell him you want to set up a time to talk, don't jump him on the spot, then when you do talk to him, try to be calm, no matter how silly his suggestions or ideas seem. Hope it helps!
at 9:14 AM on Jun. 23, 2008