Hope this helps with your daughter too, copied from my reply to another mom who just asked a very similar question:
"We had this problem too. I think it's the age. I gave my son an ice cube tray of healthy foods, he could pick through. It had cheese pieces, sliced grapes, apples, cubed bread, deli lunch meat cut into small pieces, goldfish, peas, etc... I left it out for him to graze a bit then I refridgerated it. But he ATE some stuff from it. Remember, their tummies are only as big as their fists. Try to make sure he's not overdoing it on drinking milk to fill his little sotmach. You can offer some pediasure every once in a while too. He'll eventually eat when he's hungry, but if you are worried ask your pediatrician. Also, I let my son use a popsicle stick like a toothpick to make it fun!"
at 11:18 AM on Aug. 10, 2009