I guess that would depend on the male and female involved! I would guess whichever one was either A. nervous about the prospect of sleeping with one person for the rest of their lives. They may want one more "fling" before the big "I do". or B. if one of them is just plain unhappy in the relationship period, but is getting married for reasons other than love and commitment. These are things likely to lead to cheating, whether male or female. True, sometimes people get sloppy drunk and wind up doing things they would not normally do...but a happy guy/gal probably won't let things get THAT out of control. If there are any worries, they should be talked about before the parties and certain boundaries may be enforced if someone is uncomfortable, whether the person would cheat or not. Ex. no strippers, no getting drunk enough to pass out, no inviting that friend who may encourage him/her to cheat...
at 1:43 PM on Aug. 10, 2009