I had a baby year ago and gained 60 pounds while pregnant. I was a size 4 before so I felt pretty bad but shrugged it off because I had a baby. I’ve lost some weight but not all as I was very sick for a good time after I had the baby almost losing my life during childbirth. I hemorraged and had a minor stroke. I've lost about half the weight and am now as size 10. This past weekend my father in law asked me what was wrong with me. He said that I was letting myself go and I looked horribly fat. This really hurt my feelings and to make things worse he proceeded to tell me that my mother in law (they are divorced) is the one who went to his house and told him that I look really fat. This isn’t the first time that my mother in law has talked about me behind my back and I’m so angry and completely hurt. I'm angry and I don't know how to handle the situation. Help!Answer Question
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Size 10 = fat? OMG, they are insane. Tell them to come to my house if they want to see fat. Of course, I'll tell them to kiss my ....well you know. Be ok with yourself. Don't let other ppl control you or try to make you feel bad about yourself. These ppl are not worth the sweat off your cooter. Don't give them the time of day. When you do then you cheat your family out of your time and energy. Being angry and hurt over morons saying dumb things cheats your family out of your smile.
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