I have 4 month old twin boys and when i was about 5 months pregnant my boyfriend said he wasn't ready to be a dad and left. I had a very good friend and he and i started dating soon after the boys were born. he is great with them. i hate taking them places because they have blonde hair and blue eyes and my now boyfriend is mexican and it is obvious that they aren't his. i can just feel eyes on us all the time and it doesn't seem to bother him but it makes me feel like people think i'm a bad person because i'm not with their dad..how do i let it go and just not care what people think?Answer Question
Answer by SinCitiChick at 2:53 AM on Aug. 12, 2009
Answer by jollymommy at 2:54 AM on Aug. 12, 2009
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Answer by jackiec7707 at 3:08 AM on Aug. 12, 2009
Yes I do agree with the OP You do need to not worry about what others are thinking and be happy with the two baby's and man you have in your life today. If your a mind reader then ya you know what others are thinking but I doubt your a mind reader and who gives to shits what other think. I have never been the kind of person that ever gave a shit what other thought and you should practice that ion your life also. all that should matter to you is what you think not the rest of the world.
Answer by Anonymous at 3:16 AM on Aug. 12, 2009