It depends on what she did and how long ago she did it, and it depends on whether or not it directly involves you. We can draw boundaries for ourselves, and when those boundaries are violated, we can make sure that there are consequences for those violations. We forgive the offender but we still make there be consequences for the behavior. But it we are not directly involved, we pretty much have to chalk it up as being a character issue and let it go.
at 8:15 AM on Aug. 12, 2009