i always said if something happened i would never deny my child visitation to their dad. with that said, things happen. i tried to be pc about everything, i even had the donor at drs appts. what did i get in return? he told me that if i tried to get child support, he'd just say it wasnt his, so i would have to pay for a DNA test. Come to find out he was still "technically married" as he liked to put it. yes they were separated, but still legally married. when i went into labor my mom sent a message (since i was a tad busy) to tell him i was having the baby, he said ok, and slept through it. then scolded me for not calling him again. since then only contact he's had is tryin to add me on myspace to see pictures. im now married to a wonderful man, who is all the daddy my son will ever need. i feel bad that i will have to explain this to my son later, but to me its better than the constant disappointment he could have.
at 5:49 PM on Aug. 12, 2009