i have a 7 yr old who is all of a sudden out of control. if i ask her to just clean her room she kicks me screams as thought she is being beaten,throws things at me or around me,crys like she is a baby,disappears and we have to search the neighborhodd for her.i am at my wits end with her this is not how i have raised my kids to treat me or act.it hurt so much when she does these things al i can do is sit down and cry. help me please i want my daughter back!
Asked by Anonymous at 10:30 PM on Aug. 12, 2009 in School-Age Kids (5-8)
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Answer by crazymom21 at 3:31 AM on Aug. 13, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 5:11 AM on Aug. 13, 2009
tell her to clean her room. If she doesn't tell her YOU will clean it for her.....then if she does not clean it You do.......remove everything not necessary out of the room. that means all toys, all gadgets etc leave her 2-3 books to read her bed her dresser and a lamp. NO TV, radio, games etc. then store all of her stuff. If she wants her stuff back she will have to earn it back by being polite well mannered and no more taking off running in the neighborhood. I did this with my oldest son (only had to do it once) and he learned pretty quick that Mom means what she says. Sometimes you have to get VERY TOUGH with your kids. And if you cannot get control of her now you will NEVER be able to control her in her teen years !!!
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