I had a miscarriage 3-4 months ago and i still get depressed about it. I feel like it isnt fair. I want a baby so bad. i see my friends that got pregnant a month before i did and they are still happy and pregnant. it makes me mad. i see their sonograms and i think i should be getting those too. and my husband wont try again. he wanted a baby too butnow he doesnt want one right now he wants one but not right now. I feel like he is being selffish. Why is he giving up? he did it the first time tried for a baby and now he wont. it just doesnt make sense to me. and whenever i try to talk about he will try to avoid it. he keeps saying is i will get mad so we shouldnt talk about.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:51 PM on Aug. 12, 2009 in Relationships
I don't know but here's a hug and my condolences for your loss.
Answer by admckenzie at 12:03 AM on Aug. 13, 2009
Answer by Lovin_mybaby5 at 12:08 AM on Aug. 13, 2009
I had 2 miscarriages before I had my son (now 5) it was very hard on both of us. (it seemed more hubby then me.) I just kept telling myself the little angel wasn't ready yet. after the 2 miscarriage we waited 1 year before trying again. I took prenatal vitaminseveryday that year. when we finally were pregnant with my son we didn't tell anyone (not even the potential grandparents.) till I was showing, it seemed easier to deal with it if it happened again with just the 2 of us, than having everyone feel sorry of sympathy for us.....give it some time, try to get back to normal. if the depression doesn't seem to go away talk with your Dr. you could be having a hormone imbalance, like postpartum depression. hubby too. good luck, stay strong.
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