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Anyone with adopted kid(s)????

We adopted our son locally, and was able to bring him home from the hospital 5 years ago!!!!!!!!!!!!! Not being able to get pregnant was the best thing that happened!!!

I am dreading when they start talking about the "family tree" in school and how kids look like their parents......genes etc. We'll cross that bridge when we get to it!

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Asked by Anonymous at 9:29 AM on Aug. 14, 2009 in School-Age Kids (5-8)

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  • well i never adopted a kid but im adopted myself and i knew that i was and i just did that stuff using my adoptive parents and worked just fine

    Answer by anarose26 at 9:34 AM on Aug. 14, 2009

  • my SS is adopted. Adopted kids know they are adopted, the ones that I know don't have any issues about it and never have. It is just a fact in their can also inform the teacher so she doesn't "dwell" on who your son looks like or doesn't look like. I think it you make a big deal out of it in the negative he may start to think it is a bad thing.


    Answer by justgrape723 at 10:56 AM on Aug. 14, 2009

  • I have 3 adopted kids,2 of them know,but, the 14 yr. old don't know, we never encounter any problems,I always tell people ,it's very important to start a Life-Book for your child, in this book you put all baby pictures,vacations, pictures of parents,also,just a hint,who said a child had to look like the parents,a child can look like his great-great grandparents. Enjoy your child,and stop worrying. Oh,I never imformed teachers,staff of my children adoption,of course their dr. knew.


    Answer by Anonymous at 7:05 PM on Aug. 16, 2009

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