My x- fiance's wife sent me a friend request on facebook. Now we have been broken up 9 years or so and he is married with 2 kids. I dont still hate him like I did, but I dont particularly want to associate with him either. We of course have mutual friends who's status we comment on. There was a little overlap in my relationship with him and hers. Im not so sure if she knows that or not. I know it was forever ago, and again I dont still harbor hate for him, but that doesnt change that I DID love him and I got REALLY hurt. Why would she want to friend me? Do I accept? Send her a message? Ignore it?
Answer by KerryLou at 10:41 AM on Aug. 15, 2009
If it would be uncomfortable or weird for you to be friends with her then I would just send her a message and explain why you can't be friends with her. That way she doesn't think you're being mean or rude. She'll probably understand. But if it's not weird for you then I'd just accept it. But it all depends on how you feel.
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