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my 4 year old is out of controll please help.

i have a son thats turning 4 hes so out of controll. he hits hes perverted. he cusses flips u off. breaks all his toys throws them at u. and so much more now i have punnished him. i have spanked. time out. reward board. early bed time. no snacks . no tv. no toys so many more. and he does not care he doesnt care about conciquences. he dont mind to stay in his room all day or dont care to be punnished. i have never shown him its ok to be this way i i need help

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Asked by faith86 at 10:01 AM on Aug. 15, 2009 in Preschoolers (3-4)

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  • Someone has taught him all of these things. And you have to find out who and get them away from your child. Just think about when he starts school. This little boy sounds very out of control. He may even need some counseling. We had a little boy at the daycare where I worked who did all of these things. We tried telling his parents that he needed some counseling. They wouldnt listen he has now been kicked out of 2 daycares and one school. He is only 6.

    Answer by treynlisa at 10:10 AM on Aug. 15, 2009

  • He needs an evaluation for Family Based services...a therapist will come to your house and help teach you how to help your child. They can help you figure out where the behaviors are coming from, why and how to stop them...Best of Luck!!!

    Answer by KaylasMiracle at 11:53 AM on Aug. 15, 2009

  • yes i also wonder....where did he learn all of that stuff? my son is four and would not know about any of that. if its in the home it needs to stop. if you take it all out of his life it may just go away if he stops hearing and seeing all of it. just tell him "we dont do that" and make it true.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:58 PM on Aug. 16, 2009

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