Ok, so my soon to be sons father hasnt been around since I was about 6 weeks pregnant, give or take- about a month ago he decided he wanted to try to "work things out"
I thought deep down inside he was doing this to avoid child support and while that may be the case the joke will be on him, because I am still filling- Anyways, I had my soon to be sons name ALL picked out, my family liked it, I LOVED it, but his father HATES it!
I guess I feel like since he is trying I should consider his names, but at the same time, I went throu this WHOLE pregnancy with out him, only for him to show up twards the end for the "Fun" stuff, like naming the baby, and seeing the baby, and holding the baby- I'm due Agu 27th- He didn't even know the due date- he just new it had been about 9 months- When he first called me his question was "did you have the baby yet" Didn't even know if it was a boy or girl.
I don't know what to do-
Asked by Anonymous at 6:06 PM on Aug. 15, 2009 in Just for Fun
Answer by Anonymous at 6:08 PM on Aug. 15, 2009
Answer by K_Sawyer at 6:12 PM on Aug. 15, 2009
I would choose the name you and your family love. After all you and your family have been there the entire pregnancy, he has not. But I would at least give him a chance to be apart of the child's life, but not yours. Meaning do not get back together with him. If he left when it meant the most, he will do it again.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 6:12 PM on Aug. 15, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 6:13 PM on Aug. 15, 2009
Answer by NannyB. at 6:16 PM on Aug. 15, 2009
Answer by K_Sawyer at 6:16 PM on Aug. 15, 2009
Answer by momofsaee at 6:23 PM on Aug. 15, 2009