Or at least I'm TRYING to be done LOL...I've tried to break it off with this guy for months because I know the relationship isn't really going anywhere, yet I keep going back to him. I really want to end it but I just can't seem too. What can I do? I think other than meeting someone else nothing is going to help me. I've tried exercising, reading, hanging out with my friends, praying, I've even considered getting a second job but nothing takes my mind off of him...any suggestions?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:01 AM on Aug. 17, 2009 in Relationships
Eventually something will stop you from wanting him.
Answer by louise2 at 9:04 AM on Aug. 17, 2009
Answer by Bmat at 9:06 AM on Aug. 17, 2009
Move away if it's possible? You probably need to understand why you keep going back to him. Why do you think you go back to him? Do you get lonely? If that's the case, then you need to take steps to hang out w/ your friends more. I don't know what i would have done if i didn't have friends to occupy my time when i split w/ the ex. They saved my life! And after about 2 months, i didn't want to go anywhere near him. Go out, & have some fun. Make some friends, if you need to. If your brain & time is somehow occupied, then it will make it harder for you to go back. And it will work especially well if you have friends who make you feel special. Anyhow, good luck! Stick to your guns, & think of him doing gross things that make you go "EEEEEEEW!", that might help too....lol!
Answer by samurai_chica at 9:06 AM on Aug. 17, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 9:10 AM on Aug. 17, 2009
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Answer by admckenzie at 10:02 AM on Aug. 17, 2009