I have freinds witha girl for 4 years but i think it is time to call it off.. i have gone out of my way to hep her and she treats me like crap.. she also is asbusive to her kids.. i need to be around better people .. but its hard to end a freindshio advice pleaseAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:46 AM on Aug. 17, 2009 in General Parenting
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Answer by purpleducky at 10:21 AM on Aug. 17, 2009
I have ended a long-time friendship with 2 close friends. They were like a Mom & brother to me (they were Mom & son). In my case, it just happened. He was upset when I needed to pick up something from his house because I hadn't called him in a while (a few weeks or a month, Idk). He said things trying to be hurtful & he revealed what I had suspected he had felt for some time (just judgment that my divorce was no big deal, etc). I didn't need it any more.Â I had intentionally not called because I realized they were both too negetive, critical, & judgemental and I wanted to see ifÂ either of them would call me for a change.Â He felt I should have to checked on him b/c he was going through a custody dispute. I didn't see why it should just be on me to keep in touch. It sounds trivial but, it was more than that.
Answer by BubbaLuva at 10:46 AM on Aug. 17, 2009
I realized that the friendship wasn't building me up as much as is was bringing me down. They had both been wonderful friends for a time I can't take that away from them but, we grew apart. No one speaks to me the way he did. He had gone off on me before when I had done nothing to him, that was the last straw. He said he didn't want to be friends anymore, I said fine. I think he just wanted me to apologize but, I'd done nothing wrong. Roughly a year later, he left a voicemail crying needing a friend but, that was too little too late. In the msg he wanted to keep it between us that he called me, knowing him it was b/c he had sh!t talked about me to everyone & it would make him look bad to come crawling back.
Answer by BubbaLuva at 11:04 AM on Aug. 17, 2009
Pm me if you'd like to hear more, there is so much more, or if you think I can help. GL! You can do this, and you DESERVE to be around positive people who treat you right!
Answer by BubbaLuva at 11:06 AM on Aug. 17, 2009
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