My husband is white. I am black. We have been together 5 years. (Married 2yrs) My stepson Has always been difficult but sometimes he makes these off color jokes that are really hurt. This never happened when we were dating. But every once in a while he says things that point out that he feel whites are superior. I can't make my husband choose between me and his son. But this is my home. I hate feeling like hired help in his presence. He has told me that whites score better on standard tests. He says I should be happy that am with his dad because my life would not be as nice. (even though I am a professional and had a home and lived a very nice comfortable life prior to meeting him). One time he asked why my son took his lunch to school. I said because he likes to. Then he said Oh, I thought maybe they would not serve him because he was black!!! How do I find a solution to save my marriage.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:42 AM on Aug. 17, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by samurai_chica at 10:56 AM on Aug. 17, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 10:53 AM on Aug. 17, 2009
Answer by collegemom1007 at 10:53 AM on Aug. 17, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:03 AM on Aug. 17, 2009