My family has consistently ignored me... both letting me know what is going on (including things that cannot be excused as an oversight like not letting me know my daughter was involved in a car accident that totalled the car) and responding to my attempts at communication. My mother has been talking sh*t about me to my daughter, all based on assumptions (for the majority of my daughter's life we lived across the country from them). A couple months ago they did tell me stepdad resigned his position & would need to live apart from my mom when he found an interrim position. I got a call from my sister yesterday, "I'm sure you know..." stepdad is leaving Thu. for 3 yrs... no, I didn't know. They don't talk to me. Sis wants us all to have dinner together... I love her and respect her attempts to continue family celebrations, etc., but she really doesn't know how they treat me. There are not reasons for this, btw. Should I go?
Answer by louise2 at 7:42 PM on Aug. 17, 2009
Answer by Bmat at 11:39 AM on Aug. 17, 2009
Answer by louise2 at 11:43 AM on Aug. 17, 2009
I wish I could help you but unfortunately no one can. Only you know the dynamics of your relationship with all the parties involved and only you can make that decision.
Answer by beeky at 11:59 AM on Aug. 17, 2009
Answer by figaro8895 at 12:00 PM on Aug. 17, 2009
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