DH second guesses my every decision regarding our 21 month old DD and fights me on every issue. He doesn't have another point of view, he just fights me. I can't seem to get him to be partners in our parenting. We can't seem to just move forward on the same page! DD is beginning to notice, now and I fear the reprecussions will be irreversible. I am a SAHM and he is 13 years older than me. I do all the parenting from 6 am until he comes home to bathe her and put her to bed. Help. This is exhausting!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 3:26 PM on Aug. 17, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by NannyB. at 4:53 PM on Aug. 17, 2009
To everyone who needs some specifics, He doesn't have an alternate plan to our arguements. I have asked. He would rather argue and walk out of the room, restaurant, family gathering ,then complain about my behavior it makes him look involved. I have wept. I have pleaded. I went on anti depressants, I gave in.He won't deal with any uncomfortable situation regarding her.Crying? Tells her to stop it( I've told him to ask her why or figure it out) Won't eat? leaves. Hurts herself? leaves He leaves an AX on the porch? He didn't mean to. doing, I'm just over emotional. He wouldn't even let me take her to the ER when she got CROUP( he was embarrassed that I called the EMTs) SO?
Answer by Anonymous at 7:56 PM on Aug. 17, 2009