I had a miscarriage and weeks later a friend of mine announcned her pregnancy.. shes due weeks after i was (i had an early miscarriage).
I was happy for her, but deep down i was filled with immense jealousy. Ive kept my feelings to myself.. i felt there was no need to share.
a few weeks ago i found out she had an abortion only months before concieving this baby. again.. after months of still trying.. and still not getting pregnant my negative feelings returned for her. how is this fair? i know i shouldnt feel this way.. but i do.. i hate it.
to top things off. today i find out what she wants to name her child. it was a name i had picked out if/when i have boy/girl twins *i know the chances of that are slim,... but still*
i cant help but take all this personally, even though i know its not meant that way.. i know its my own crazy jealousy..
has anyone else ever felt this way? how do i get over these crappy feelings?
Asked by Anonymous at 8:20 PM on Aug. 17, 2009 in About CafeMom
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