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Child Support?!

Would you pay your man's child support for his previous kids for him???

Would you date a man who wouldn't pay child support for his kids?


Asked by Anonymous at 1:18 PM on Aug. 18, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (16)
  • no. If he has to pay child support that's on him. If he's not paying it, I would leave him in a second cause he obviously doesn't care about his own kid to provide for them

    Answer by kittenripmaygo at 1:24 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • nope and nope.
    I date men not boys

    Answer by heather.darin at 1:19 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • 1-I would help
    2- absolutely NOT

    Answer by mamakirs at 1:19 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • Maybe once or twice if he lost his job.

    NO WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Answer by treynlisa at 1:20 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • No & no.

    Answer by feesharose at 1:20 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • No and no. I wouldn't date a man that had kids and child support. Too much baggage.

    Answer by GailllAZ at 1:20 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • Well if your married or living together. The money is coming out of his check to pay it. That is money that would be going to your house hold that is not cause it's going to child support. So weather you pay it or he pays it it still effects you.


    Answer by louise2 at 1:22 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • no but my x's wife pays it. He didn't pay it when the kids were growing up. I still kept telling the court I wanted it even though the kids are grown. He still wont pay it with his money but she does to keep him out of jail. That shows what a kind of jerk he is

    Answer by admckenzie at 1:23 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • I Refuse to take child support from the sperm donor. If i take child support then he has a right to see my child. My child that i get up with every night that i take care of good and bad. He doesn't deserve my child.

    I would help pay.
    But don't worry about getting child support. Your strong and can take care of your child on your own.

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:25 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • Nope and Nope, my SO has custody of his children, he refused to be a part time dad, god he's great!

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:38 PM on Aug. 18, 2009