Why does he leave early in the morning, leaving me with the screaming kids that want him? Why does he always say that he needs a break when I am with the kids all day? Why does it hurt me so much and make me feel like he doesn't want to spend time with me? I hate feeling like this, yet he's gone all day everyday either at work, or with his friends, and I don't even get to have friends because I don't have time to meet people!
Asked by Anonymous at 2:51 PM on Aug. 18, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 3:06 PM on Aug. 18, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 2:55 PM on Aug. 18, 2009
Answer by Dyndudes at 3:00 PM on Aug. 18, 2009
Answer by Cavalrybaby02 at 3:03 PM on Aug. 18, 2009
A lot of men do this. In their minds, they work all day, they bring home the bacon, so, they deserve a break more than you do. ALTHOUGH! They don't realize how much of a break SAHM's really need. They have no idea how stressful it is, they have no idea how much of ourselves we have to sacrifice, just to keep the chores done & people fed. You need to write him a note. Tell him one by one the things you do, & how you never get a break. Tell him your are spent, you feel week from constantly ignoring your own needs. Tell him, just one night a week, you would like some time alone. ONE NIGHT! If he cannot do any of that for you, then i am sorry you have a complete selfish husband, and if that is the case then you need to seek counseling because you will be VERY un-happy for the next few years until the kids are a lil more independent.
Answer by samurai_chica at 3:08 PM on Aug. 18, 2009