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soooo.....

The boyfriend and i have taken a "break" as he put it. and im totally fine with it. im actually kinda feel relieved! i know that sounds bad but you have to remember he is in north caralina and has been for a while now. and we both now we have to take care of ourselves of cheating we kinda just seperated for the time being....the problem is i just dont know if i wanna get back together until he comes back...what do you all think????

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 5:37 PM on Aug. 18, 2009 in Relationships

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  • why waste his time,if you dont want him. i think people that take breaks arent in it for life anyway
    BUSYLOVINGHIM

    Answer by BUSYLOVINGHIM at 5:39 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • if your taking a break your not ready for thsi relationship cut your losses adn come back to it in a couple years or so if you even think its worth it breaks are just a sugar coated break up
    katiekruschke

    Answer by katiekruschke at 5:43 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • i didnt break up with him...he did it. realize that before you start talking.....and honestly i believe were both to young to "be in it for life" as you say it......

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:46 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • then walk away if he said lets take a break it was sugar coating i dont want to be with you, cut your losses walk away adn go be with someone deserving of you who is willing to commit to you
    katiekruschke

    Answer by katiekruschke at 5:54 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • at this point i am...and i think im so relieved because i find myself liking someone else

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:56 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • sounds good, live life to the fullest then reevaluate the relationship when he returns
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 7:47 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • If you're relieved then what's the problem?
    Date, have fun... you're split up so enjoy being single.
    lisa_ann_p

    Answer by lisa_ann_p at 3:03 AM on Aug. 19, 2009

  • actually im way ahead of you.....ive got a date coming along real soon.....

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:19 PM on Aug. 19, 2009

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