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The boyfriend and i have taken a "break" as he put it. and im totally fine with it. im actually kinda feel relieved! i know that sounds bad but you have to remember he is in north caralina and has been for a while now. and we both now we have to take care of ourselves of cheating we kinda just seperated for the time being....the problem is i just dont know if i wanna get back together until he comes back...what do you all think????

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Asked by Anonymous at 5:37 PM on Aug. 18, 2009 in Relationships

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  • why waste his time,if you dont want him. i think people that take breaks arent in it for life anyway

    Answer by BUSYLOVINGHIM at 5:39 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • if your taking a break your not ready for thsi relationship cut your losses adn come back to it in a couple years or so if you even think its worth it breaks are just a sugar coated break up

    Answer by katiekruschke at 5:43 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • i didnt break up with him...he did it. realize that before you start talking.....and honestly i believe were both to young to "be in it for life" as you say it......


    Answer by Anonymous at 5:46 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • then walk away if he said lets take a break it was sugar coating i dont want to be with you, cut your losses walk away adn go be with someone deserving of you who is willing to commit to you

    Answer by katiekruschke at 5:54 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • at this point i am...and i think im so relieved because i find myself liking someone else


    Answer by Anonymous at 5:56 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • sounds good, live life to the fullest then reevaluate the relationship when he returns

    Answer by admckenzie at 7:47 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • If you're relieved then what's the problem?
    Date, have fun... you're split up so enjoy being single.

    Answer by lisa_ann_p at 3:03 AM on Aug. 19, 2009

  • actually im way ahead of you.....ive got a date coming along real soon.....


    Answer by Anonymous at 4:19 PM on Aug. 19, 2009

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