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big fight, now what?

My hubby and I had a big fight a couple of hours ago. I said some stupid things because I'm really stressed. He took the high road (like always) and took our son out to see his grandparents while I chilled out here. He'll be home soon and I really want to apologize but I don't know what to say/do. I feel really stupid right now!

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 9:11 PM on Aug. 18, 2009 in Relationships

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  • just tell him how you feel.
    gammie

    Answer by gammie at 9:14 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • Just tell him what you just told us. "I'm sorry. I said some stupid things b/c I'm really stressed. I know it's not an excuse, but still, I'm sorry." A simple, sincere apology will go a lot further than one that you spent hours thinking up but don't really mean.
    tropicalmama

    Answer by tropicalmama at 9:17 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • I agree with the other posts, then have make up sex. You'll both feel a lot better :-)
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:18 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • I am quick to just spit out the words I'm sorry! Get it over with. I tell SO "you know how I get when I get angry and I didn't mean what I said, I'm sorry". If it's too bad I will go so far as to say "Please forgive me". It makes him feel like he's in control. He likes to play control freak. LOL
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 10:32 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

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