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big fight, now what?

My hubby and I had a big fight a couple of hours ago. I said some stupid things because I'm really stressed. He took the high road (like always) and took our son out to see his grandparents while I chilled out here. He'll be home soon and I really want to apologize but I don't know what to say/do. I feel really stupid right now!

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Asked by Anonymous at 9:11 PM on Aug. 18, 2009 in Relationships

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  • just tell him how you feel.

    Answer by gammie at 9:14 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • Just tell him what you just told us. "I'm sorry. I said some stupid things b/c I'm really stressed. I know it's not an excuse, but still, I'm sorry." A simple, sincere apology will go a lot further than one that you spent hours thinking up but don't really mean.

    Answer by tropicalmama at 9:17 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • I agree with the other posts, then have make up sex. You'll both feel a lot better :-)

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:18 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

  • I am quick to just spit out the words I'm sorry! Get it over with. I tell SO "you know how I get when I get angry and I didn't mean what I said, I'm sorry". If it's too bad I will go so far as to say "Please forgive me". It makes him feel like he's in control. He likes to play control freak. LOL

    Answer by admckenzie at 10:32 PM on Aug. 18, 2009

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