about a yr and a half ago, only a few months before i got married, i had an incident with another man. Nothing serious. Just a few kisses on the face and some cuddle time. Well, my DH called me when this was happening and was rightfully pissed that i was not at home and that i was with ppl he had never met. And stupid me, (and i still dont know why i did this) but i lied to him. I told him nothing happened and i hid things from that moment on. I flirted with other guys and things, never with any intention of ever cheating. ...but i was very inappropriate with other men. ...Well, i was feeling horrible about myself and i havnt committed any of these acts for about 6 months or so. my DH just found out about everything. And i confessed and i cried. And he has forgiven me, and loves me just the same. ...but now, how do i forgive myself? How do i move past what i have done? i am Pagan so plz keep bible stuff to a min. TIA
Asked by Anonymous at 10:45 PM on Aug. 19, 2009 in Religion & Beliefs
Answer by isabellalecour at 11:45 PM on Aug. 19, 2009
Answer by admckenzie at 10:53 PM on Aug. 19, 2009
Answer by orkibe3 at 10:54 PM on Aug. 19, 2009
I think you should meditate on the reason you sought others attention rather than focusing on forgiving yourself. Once you realize the answer to that question then you will know what to do.
Answer by SalemWitchChild at 11:09 PM on Aug. 19, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:18 PM on Aug. 19, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:24 PM on Aug. 19, 2009
If that is the case then I think your just starved for attention. You need to learn ways to better your relationship long distance. I assume you are able to send emails or snail mail to him? Why not write stories to him, get dressed up and send him pictures. Do something that is erotic for him to think about so when he comes home you can both have lots more fun. The anticipation will make it all the more wild. Get him in on it to. He needs to show you his love even though he is not physically with you.
Answer by SalemWitchChild at 11:26 PM on Aug. 19, 2009
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