Is there any gay moms on here? Or is that a bad question to ask. I don't want to be judged, but I have a child and I feel I am .. well, goin that way (gay) or already there, but I don't know how to tell my family or how to deal with it, and most importantly, I wonder how to deal with it with a child. For example, I don't want him getting picked on growing up or anything like that... or even him having a grudge towards me because of it. Or him being confused on what he is suppose to do when old enough as far as him being with a girl or boy type thing. He is only 4 now.. but I still worry!!! Advice would be great, but like I said, please don't judge me... : / And I didn't mean to offend anyone if I did!!
Asked by Anonymous at 1:55 AM on Aug. 20, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by Anonymous at 3:22 AM on Aug. 20, 2009
You just have to be yourself...that's all you can be. :) I'm sorry to hear that your family wouldn't be supportive of you, but they may come around in time. As far as your son, well as long as you are happy and secure with yourself I'm sure he'll be fine. Like miss nevin said, just be open and honest with him.
If there are PFLAG meetings (Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays) in your area you may want to go to them. They are a great support system for gays/lesbians/bi and their family. If you're not familiar with PFLAG you can check out their website here
Just ignore those ladies who are being judgemental. Take care and I wish you all the best.
Answer by AnamCara1 at 3:39 AM on Aug. 20, 2009
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