just want to know please don't bash. If you did and your married how did you make it work?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:38 PM on Aug. 20, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by ap9902 at 12:48 PM on Aug. 20, 2009
Terrified? No. I did it three times but won't do it again. Things change after the I Do's and I didn't like the change. I felt like the men misrepresented themselves but they thought their role changed. Well duh, yeah but it changed from partner to tyrant and that wasn't in our original negotiation for a future together. Talk to him. See what he expects of you. Ask how he perceives his role (partner as equal or tyrannical head of house) See what roles he thinks you two should do alone and what will be done together (child rearing, house work, working out side the home). Once it's all worked out and you agree that you will discuss issues as they come along you should be fine.
Answer by admckenzie at 1:17 PM on Aug. 20, 2009
Answer by suzyb1980 at 1:52 PM on Aug. 20, 2009
Answer by kathyartist2007 at 4:05 PM on Aug. 20, 2009