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how would this make u feel?

I have a 2 yr old DD and an 8 month old DS. With the same man. she claims my daughter and only half ass claims my son. he has told me if i got pregnant with another mans baby that he would still bring stuff for all 3 kids. I DONT believe him. He has only seen my DS about 4 times in almost 9 months! Well anyway the other day was my DD bday party. HE LEFT bc he decided to bring a kid he knew had to be brought home! so he came back and brought his mom back which was fine. but by the end of the party i noticed he ignored my son till i forced him to hold him. he didnt take him from anyone, didnt talk to him any. just flat out ignored him. when he was holding him my bf walked by and my son reached and started cryin for my bf. ISNT THERE SOMETHING WRONG THERE? whats ur views on this ALL.

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 3:47 PM on Aug. 20, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (4)
  • He sounds like a jerk. A real man has a relationship with his children no matter their age.
    wildflowers25

    Answer by wildflowers25 at 4:56 PM on Aug. 20, 2009

  • Sometimes men don't feel a bond with a very young child until the child can actually play and talk with them. There may be other circumstances that we don't know of here also. Such as was he happy when he found out that you were pregnant, or did he not want another child, something like this.
    Bmat

    Answer by Bmat at 4:02 PM on Aug. 20, 2009

  • geez, get on birth control so you can quit hurting and confusing your children
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:43 PM on Aug. 20, 2009

  • OP........Anon shut the fuck u. you stupid bitch. my kids are happy as hell. the guy im with now treats them better then their father ever has. and we have them callin him by his name! dont u ever say some dumb shit about someones kids. i have two by one man u act like i have 6 from 5 different fathers. my kids dont know him bc of him NOT ME. he wanted to act like an ass at the hospital when my DS was born he left during my c section then wouldnt sign the birth certificate. that was his choice NOT MINE. so go fuck urself
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:50 PM on Aug. 20, 2009