I dont understand women who say im a "proud submissive wife" how can you be proud to have no say in a relationship, to just do as your told like a child and to pretty much be treated like a child, so if your husband wants to spend thousands of dollars and spin the family into debt your going to lay down and take it?? or if he beats your children or you, you'll lay down and take it? what about if he decides hes going to have an affair your going to submit and take that?? I guess I just dont understand any of it?? or how far it really goes?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 3:53 PM on Aug. 20, 2009 in Just for Fun
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Answer by mamakirs at 4:03 PM on Aug. 20, 2009
I have never heard anyone say that, but you don't seem to understand "submissive". It doesn't mean that you are a door mat or walked all over. Being submissive to your husband isn't the same as being oppressed as in some other countries. You have a say. You have a voice. Submissive wives just believe that the final say in some decisions are the husbands. That doesn't mean that they haven't talked, researched, or she hasn't made her wishes understood. Someone has to make the final decisions about some issues. The husband is just as good as the wife. I'm submissive in some issues. I speak my mind. He speaks his. We weigh the pro's and con's and then he makes the call. Sometimes, when things go wrong, I feel sorry for the weight he has to bear. You need to understand the concept before you make such broad assumptions.
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