okay, me and my husband have been going through a lot and we were separated but now are talking about getting back together. Throughout our whole relationship problem my mother has been there for me and it's no secret that she doesnt like him and she doesn't want us to be together. Well she already expressed that she wouldn't be there for me if I stayed w/ him. I was in shock. Now i have to choose b/t my husband and my mother? I don't think its fair for me and its adding stress on me. But in all honesty it's whats keeping me from making a final decision to stay w/ my husband. What should i do? and is she wrong for this?
Asked by Anonymous at 7:34 PM on Aug. 20, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 7:47 PM on Aug. 20, 2009
Answer by kc932 at 7:39 PM on Aug. 20, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 7:40 PM on Aug. 20, 2009
That tends to happen since instead of working your problems out like an adult you ran to your mother and vented everything out to her. So, naturally she doesn't like him because she loves you and she's trying to protect you because she's your mother. Next time you have a problem with your husband, you stay and work it out with your husband and don't vent your problems out with family members because when you do, of course they are going to side with you but if you two get back together, they are going to have issues with it. Unless it's an abusive situation, stay and work it out. If it is abusive, you shouldn't even think about trying to work it out.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 7:43 PM on Aug. 20, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 8:21 PM on Aug. 20, 2009
Answer by FXmomTo3 at 8:40 PM on Aug. 20, 2009
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Answer by mumma28 at 9:55 PM on Aug. 20, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 10:42 PM on Aug. 20, 2009
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