My husband and I were talking about just getting married at the courthouse, but his mother said that she didnt like that idea at all. Well, we asked if we could get married in her beautiful back yard (garden)? She said Oh yes, its always been a dream of mine to have a wedding here. Well to her, that meant....she had control over decisions even though my husband and I were planning on paying for everything ourselves. Then his parents offered to pay for a couple things. We accepted. Then she started buying things without me even being there for decorations. She went way overboard on flowers, although the place did look wonderful. Everytime I would mention an idea, she had a better one. ( so to speak) Well now she is taking all the credit for our wedding and saying how ungrateful we are to her for throwing us our wedding. A lot of hands went into it, including ours. She is even talking behind my back to his ex girlfriend. OUCH!
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