I am a christian, thats what I claim anyway. I go to church faithfully, I pray. I read my bible and I tithe. Before my marriage broke up I felt very close to God, very in tune with where I thought my life was going and what God wanted for me. When my marriage fell apart, I feel like I did too. My husband wasn't attentitive to me at all, he spend all his time taking care of his mother, he wouldn't work or help support our family. I kept telling him that someone was going to come along and show me some attention and it was going to be dangerous. Guess what happened? A month before I moved out someone came along, showed me some attention and we started a relationship. That was 5 months ago and we are still going strong. I love this man, I want to be with him, but morally and what I believe I know it's not right. My divorce will be final in october. I feel like I've let God down so much, I feel like such a pathetic loser...Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:28 AM on Aug. 21, 2009 in Religion & Beliefs
Answer by MommaRox4683 at 9:30 AM on Aug. 21, 2009
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Answer by older at 9:34 AM on Aug. 21, 2009
Do you not think that this was in gods plan? Things have a strange way of unfolding. God could be looking out for you. Maybe he knew the only way you could get the love you need, is to find you someone who truly can give it to you. Why do you feel such guilt? If you are a strong Christian, then you know god will forgive you for anything you feel you have done wrong. God still wants you to be happy, he still wants you to be loved. The love that a man & a woman share is just a fraction of the reflection of gods love. Ask god to stand beside you, & to forgive you for leaving your husband. He understands, and he wants you to be happy.
Love yourself, let yourself have what you deserve. The legal aspect of your divorce is not final, but the divorce in your heart is final.
Answer by samurai_chica at 9:39 AM on Aug. 21, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 9:58 AM on Aug. 21, 2009
that is why Christianity -imo- is bad. it just makes you feel terrible and like a loser. that is why i am now Wiccan.
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