I read here so many mommies to be and new mommies are upset for being induce, having a section. I had a horrible labor and was sick, hospitalized on ivs afterwards for a good amount of time. I still bonded fine with my newborn and I never felt cheated out of birth. My son was delivered from my body where he grew. How he got out mattered far less than my ego needing a ride on a specific birth experience.
What about you, did you have a section after a labor, a section right away, a labor and vaginal birth? If you were sectioned and don't feel good about it, why? Who's made you feel guilty that you 'didn't give birth not a mom cause of a section'?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:35 AM on Aug. 21, 2009 in General Parenting
Answer by maxsmom11807 at 11:40 AM on Aug. 21, 2009
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Answer by Rebecca727 at 11:42 AM on Aug. 21, 2009
Some moms are harassed by family members who feel that if they don't give a vaginal birth they are not considered a woman. My SIL have to have a c-section after pushing for nearly three hours. They kids head was way to big! Her FIL thinks she's not a real woman because she did not give birth naturally. I got a feeling her next time around she will try for a vbac because of that stupid FIL of hers.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 11:45 AM on Aug. 21, 2009
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