I am married for the second time now and have been married fro 3 1/2 years. I am 28 yrs old. Sometimes my dh just acts so annoyed with me. Other times we are completely fine. Right now we have a 13 week old a 3 yr old and a 6 yr old and he is working 3 jobs. When he acts like that sometimes I feel like packing me and the kids up and leaving. My mom and aunts always told me that the first few yrs of marriage are the hardest and to stick it out. Is that what I should do?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:13 PM on Aug. 21, 2009 in Relationships
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I don't know if any particular years were harder than others. Depends on what else is going on, health issues, child issues, money issues, each phase comes with it's own rewards and tribulations. We are friends and confidants and each others un-waivering support system. I guess from our frame of reference leaving really isn't an option, that doesn't mean we haven't had some major arguments and days of not speaking, but in the end I just can't imagine being apart. Some one once told me that once you bring the possibility of divorce into the relationship it is never the same. (30 years 6/09)
We have done the multiple jobs and the opposite shifts and it adds a lot of stress, but looking back those things are so temporary and fleeting, all of which passes with time and hopefully you come out ahead.
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