Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

Going to My Friends 30th Birthday Party??

I'm pregnant and just absolutely not in the mood to be going to my friends birthday party. She expects me to pick her up and some friend of hers I dont teven know and drive them to the bar where the party is going to be. I feel bad about not wanting to go, What would you do???

Answer Question

Asked by Anonymous at 3:11 PM on Aug. 22, 2009 in Just for Fun

Answers (4)
  • I'd go, if you said you would pick everyone up. Take an aspirin and enjoy yourself.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:34 PM on Aug. 22, 2009

  • "Take an aspirin and enjoy yourself. "

    Ok, she's pregnant, so definitely shouldn't be taking an asprin.

    I'm pregnant with #3 and I can say if I were in your shoes I wouldn't go. You're pregnant and don't need to be driving people around to party at bars. Quite possibly they are just trying to use you as a designated driver because they know you can't drink.

    Answer by ThrivingMom at 4:12 PM on Aug. 22, 2009

  • I went out with my friend on her birthday. I only went out for a few hours and then I went home. It was hard to handle all the cigarette smoke, but now you can't smoke in bar/restaurants if they serve food. I would go, just don't stay out all night.

    Answer by BridgetC140 at 4:26 PM on Aug. 22, 2009

  • Oooh, this happened to me too. I refused to go. I was pregnant and not going dancing and to a bar. She was piiiiissed, but to damn bad for her.

    Answer by Pnukey at 10:58 PM on Aug. 22, 2009

Join CafeMom now to contribute your answer and become part of our community. It's free and takes just a minute.