My father (if you want to call him that) has been in and out of my life, he left me to his mom and dad to be raised so that it who I truly considere to be more parents to me. A lot of hurtful things have happend in my life and I forgave my father for them and moved on trying to be the better person
Back in may we went to go see my dad and he spent the whole time in his room watching t.v., it made me mad and we had a ahuge falling out and haven't talked. Last tuesday I sent him a text maessage (trying to be the better person) and told him happy birthday and that he was going to be a grandpa again. I still have yet to hear from him. He acts like a child and I am just sick and tired of it and feel like my kids are better off not knowing him rather than he pop in and out of their life like he did with me. Should I keep making the effort or write it off as a lost cause because I know he will NEVER change.
Answer by JAJA_Steele at 3:16 AM on Aug. 23, 2009
Cut him off if he wanted to be in your children's life he would be in there life FULL TIME. Anyone can be daddy it takes a really man to be a father. He can always be your daddy but he is not a father to you and not a grandfather to your children. He sound not like a healthy person to be in your life nor your children life. You and your children are better off without him. Sorry that this happen to you. Just remember you have a wonderful family of your own today and your a great parent and so isn't your hubby. God Bless you and your family.
Answer by raemommy at 4:12 AM on Aug. 23, 2009
Answer by frogdawg at 8:01 AM on Aug. 23, 2009